This site is for BOYS ONLY!
It's got lots of stuff about what's normal about your
body and it tells you the actual truth, not the crap your
friends try and tell you! (email from 14 year old
boy - New Zealand)
Puberty (boy2man changes)
Puberty begins when your body is ready - not when you
decide. No one ever seems to be completely prepared for
all that is about to happen during this time. Learn to
accept the changes and the timing of it all - you can't
stop the changes or delay them!
All teenage boys get unwanted erections and worry there
is something wrong with them. Learn to hide them the best
you can when out in public!
Wet Dreams, Sexy Dreams
These are really common with teenage boys and a lot of
guys worry about what the dream was about. You can't stop
the dream or the wet bed! The nature of the dream does
not mean much so don't read anything into it.
All boys will be able to make a list of unwanted private
gay stuff that has happened in their life by the time
they are an adult! The 'list' does not mean you are gay!
Nearly all boys begin to masturbate regularly during
their teenage years. There is a balance that must be
learned to keep this a positive activity to manage the
sexual tension which builds up over time.
All boys, during puberty, get a strong interest in other
peoples' bodies. Lust can't be eliminated and is there to
eventually bond you to your lifelong sexual partner when
you marry. In the meantime you need to learn to control
your eyes and direct your sexuality positively.
All boys find a strong attraction to porn during the
teenage years. This desire shows you that things are
falling into place ready for your lifelong sexual
partner. You must also learn to control this attraction
until you can share another's body in marriage.
The best "big picture" choice for your life is to be a
virgin when you marry! The choice rests solely with you
and you will live with the consequences of your choice.
Most guys worry their penis is too big or small or thick
or thin or straight or bent or long or short or just
plain different. Nearly every guy worries about this,
especially in their teenage years! You are most likely
more normal than you imagine!
About this site
This site is the result of feedback from boys having
trouble coming to terms with their emerging sexuality.
You'll find straight talk on tough life issues with an
authority that comes from the thinking of many modern
Christian churches and organizations. I think you will be
that struck me about your site was how it resonates the
voice of a boy. I feel that what you write is "true" in
the sense that it is neither prettified, nor dramatized
or oversold. I see an honest depiction of a young male.
female youth worker - Europe - anonymity
This site contains sexually explicit language in order to
convey factual information and relevant feedback from
THERE IS NO PORNOGRAPHY ON THIS SITE
Most guys feel like there is something wrong with them
when it comes to their sexuality!